* By the time Francis Chan was sixteen, his mom is dead, his step mom is dead, and his dad is dead. (His mom died while giving birth to Francis. His step-mother died in a car accident. His dad died of cancer when he was twelve.) Then his remaining guardians Uncle George and Aunt Sandra also died (in a murder suicide.) At a young age, Francis Chan had experienced more instability than most of us have.
* When things around us become unstable, we tend to play it safe, and we hug and straddle the balance beam [instead of performing on it] as Francis demonstrated in his analogy of Olympics’ gymnastics.
After experiencing some instability, we tend to think, "This is crazy. I'm just going to have my nice little family. We're going to keep to ourselves. We're going to live in a gated community. I'm going to home school my kids [and] make them wear helmets everywhere. I'm not going to let them outside because the sun has bad rays... You just live your life in this - I don't want to do anything crazy for God. I just want to go to church and give maybe 2%, and may be serve/help the nursery (because I feel guilty.) You do this your whole life. Your greatest prayer is, "God, I would love to die in my sleep and not even feel it, and I would love to go to heaven."
Imagine watching the Olympics and the girl just straddles and hugs the balance beam for several minutes throughout the whole routine, and then gets off the balance beam in a pose of victory. What is the judge supposed to do? "Wow, well done!" Is the judge going to say that? "Well done!" You lived the safest life possible. You didn't slip. You didn't fall." This is what the majority will do with their life. Do you want to go where the majority goes? Are you going the same way as the majority?
* I don't want to go where the majority goes.
Contemplation/Free-writing Exercise
Write two or more paragraphs addressing one or more of the following questions. Do you think you will be happy and fulfilled just pursuing a safe comfortable life with money, a nice house, a nice car, a nice family with kids, and nice vacations periodically? Is this typical pursuit really going to make you happy when you obtain all of it? For those who already have attained all of these, are they truly fulfilled and happy? Not that we shouldn’t have this comfort and security. However, is there something else, something greater than yourself you should also pursue, alongside working for these necessities and amenities of life? How can you pursue something greater that would ironically also provide all these necessities and security in the long run? How can going where the majority does not, provide greater fulfillment (while also providing the lesser necessities and amenities most people pursue)? Are you currently going where the majority is going? Are you okay with that? If not, what do you need to do to change directions?
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You'd be amazed that some not considered to be Christians actually have more faith than Christians who proclaim "I believe" on Sundays. This was also true when Jesus was physically down here on earth with us. Jesus came across some people who were not considered to be of God, but Jesus was amazed at their faith. (Matthew 8: 5 - 13; Matthew 15: 21- 28)
So, what is faith? Faith is belief, but it's more than that. In addition to belief, it's a knowing, but it's even more than that. It's also an absolute certainty. More than that, it's an expectation that what you know will come about, especially with God by your side.
One simple demonstration of faith is the example of you having strep throat and your doctor gives you the drug Amoxycillin. The drug is more likely to work if you have faith (a knowing and an expectation) that it will work. Believe it or not, it has actually been shown in studies that your expectation (or faith) in a drug actually can affect how well it works on you. They call this the placebo effect in science. Some studies have even shown that your negative expectation (or belief that the drug will not work) may actually decrease the effect, or effectiveness, of the drug.
“Now faith is being sure of what we hope for, being convinced of what we do not see.” Hebrews 11:1 NET http://bible.com/107/heb.11.1.net
Faith is a knowing and a certainty of something even though we have not seen or experienced it yet. In the analogy of the Amoxycillin drug, you would have faith that the drug will work even though you have never taken it in the past. If only we can apply this faith when it comes to God.
Your faith in God (your absolute knowing and certainty of His existence and your expectation that He is with you as you incessantly talk/pray to Him daily) will allow God to work in your life. When you lack faith, you block God from working in your life. Then you say, "There is no God in my life," and you would be right, but that's your fault.
Whether God works in your life or not, it's up to you. He is ready to give when you are ready to receive. You have to be receptive and have faith deep within you subconsciously, consciously, preconsciously, unconsciously, and whatever other levels of mind there are. But this is the tricky part - getting that faith ingrained deep in you at every level. (It's not just saying you have faith, as many do but it's just all talk.)
To help you with getting the faith you need deep in your mind and heart at every level, I strongly recommend that you start with the following readings or videos for just 15 minutes each day (or longer if you can):
Choose one of the following to do for at least 15 minutes a day:
"Minding the millimeter" is a very important principle
you must understand in many areas of life.
It's something you need to understand if you are dealing with diseases
such as eye disease where your eye sight is in jeopardy (which I had experienced). It is something you must
understand if you are building a business, running a business, or fixing a
sinking business. You need to understand
this principle if you are training in sports, especially professional sports. It's also important to understand this if you
are developing software or writing code.
Whatever outcome you are striving toward, you need to understand the
importance of minding the millimeter.
So, what exactly is minding the millimeter? Minding the millimeter, to put it simply, is
minding or attending to the seemingly minor things that do not seem to matter
much. However, the "minor"
things add up to (or multiply into) major problems.
The otherend is also true where, if you attend to
the right "minor" things, they add up to the major accomplishment or
outcome you are aiming for.
When people suffer from a loss (such as loss of eye sight from a
disease, loss in business, loss in sports, or failure in school), often it
may have been prevented if they did not neglect the millimeters, or the
seemingly minor things. (Or they could've had a better chance if they did not neglect the millimeters.) Although
neglecting the millimeter is usually not the sole cause of the problem, it is
usually a contributing factor. Again, I
must reemphasize that minor things add up or multiply into major
things. Therefore, minding the
millimeter is a crucial principle to put to practice in many areas of life, to prevent
crises and to keep from disaster (or at least improve your chances).
Mark Cavendish is not alone as many past winners of the Tour
de France also mind the millimeter adjustments. Every millimeter and every gram on the bike
counts. Every second matters. Athletes who perform at the highest
level in other sports are also just as meticulous in the smallest adjustments. In other sports such as running or swimming, a fraction of a second
may mean the difference between a bronze medal and no medal at all.
Even one millimeter or one fraction of a second matters. It can mean the difference between getting a medal and losing a medal.
Phil Jackson, the former basketball coach who has won ten NBA championships, taught his players this importance of not neglecting the small things. He told them that a war is lost on a single nail of a ship. Apparently, this was programmed into the mind of Michael Jordan (the most notable player coached by Jackson). Michael Jordan won all six of his NBA championships under the leadership of Phil Jackson.
Even after Jordan retired from basketball and now running his own multi-million dollar company, he assures that the smallest details of the products with the Jordan brand are up to his standards. Also, he applies this same principle of minding the millimeter to other business entities he owns. Unbeknownst to many, Michael Jordan after retiring from basketball has now become just as successful in business as he was a basketball player. As a matter of fact, Jordan's net worth has risen astronomically from when he had retired completely from the NBA. While most retired professional athletes' net worth do not change much, Jordan's impressive business performance increased his net worth so much that he has become a billionaire recently. ( He was a multimillionaire as an athlete, but became a billionaire as a business man. I do not know of any other professional athlete who became a billionnaire ten years after their retirement.) Jordan's habit of minding the millimeter allowed him to produce intended results in basketball as well as in business.
Likewise, many of you are also great at your work in solving problems or in
building something, and you understand exactly how the minor factors can
synergistically add up (or multiply).
Others of you understand this for other areas in your life, and you are
great with those areas of your life.
However, those of you who understand how this principle applies to your work neglect this when it comes to
another area, such as your health (or the medical problem you're dealing with)
whether it is eye disease, a severe infection of an organ, or another disease. You neglect this principle of minding the
millimeter, and you erroneously think, "What does it matter? It's only one small thing."
As a result, you suffer unnecessarily, or you lose. For example, the eye patient who (after
retinal detachment surgery) neglects one small thing such as adhering closely
to the doctor's instructions of what position to lie down and for how
long. Or the patient not following the doctor's exact instructions in how to take the post-surgery eye drops, how
frequently to take them, and when to stop.
Another example would be the patient neglecting overall health and
nutritional practices (like adequate intake of fruits and vegetables known to
be good for overall health and health of the eyes) because he thinks such
indirectly related factors or "minor" factors don't matter.
When unexpected complications occur after the eye patient neglect
a millimeter here and a millimeter there, they end up losing eyesight. Neglecting small things may contribute to
losing big.
Is it for certain that minding every significant millimeter would solve a
problem or allow you to produce the desired outcome? No, it's not a guarantee, but it
significantly improves your chances if you mind the millimeter. Nothing in life is a guarantee. A professional athlete training for a
championship is not guaranteed to win the gold medal, but it would be foolish
for him to neglect the training and neglect the millimeter adjustments just
because there's no guarantee.
Unfortunately, people have the foolish logic of not minding the
millimeter just because there's no guarantee.
As foolish as this is in sports, it's even more foolish to
neglect this principle of minding the millimeter when it comes to dealing with
your medical problem, especially when what's at stake is losing or keeping your
eyesight, or when it's life or death.
Another reason for this common fallacy (or error in thinking) is that one adjustment in itself or a small millimeter in itself does not solve the problem and therefore, why bother. This logic is flawed.
In the cases of the professional cyclists, they mind the millimeter adjustments even though any one small adjustment by itself does not directly make an impact. Again, all the small adjustments would add up or multiply, to make an impact indirectly or directly.
Maybe you are a computer programmer and you know that neglecting, or leaving out, a little part of the code can mean major problems, such as the whole application not working at all. Leaving out a small part of the code in one place, neglecting another small part here, and adding a wrong part there - would all add up to disaster. This is apparent if you are a good computer programmer or developer. Therefore, you are mindful of any "small" part of the code. Whatever it is you are facing or whatever it is you are building or striving for, you must mind the millimeter. When you adjust for one millimeter here, another millimeter there, and one gram here, they will all contribute toward the outcome you want (whether it is to heal from a disease, to keep your eyesight, or to turn a profit for your business.)
